Episode 212

Not knowing anyone who breastfed their baby, or never having seen another woman breastfeed her baby, I had no frame of reference , no role models in the breastfeeding arena. There was 1 book on the library shelf and it was The Womanly Art of Breastfeeding, written by a group of woman from La Leche League. I did not get this book until after my daughter was born. So, the breastfeeding class was the only place I received information on preparing for breastfeeding and what to expect when my baby was born. There were many days and nights that were filled with painful breastfeeding and major sleep deprivation. I learned a lot along the way. Humor was helpful. My baby getting bigger was helpful. It took us a while, but soon breastfeeding became enjoyable and easy. Through my experience, I learned to work hard to not judge another mother for the choices she makes. We are all doing the best we can. I choose to focus on education and support. This is my first breastfeeding experience

Quote – I do remember the teacher saying.. that the breasts, while a sexual organ, have a primary purpose and that is to feed our babies. I remember the teacher saying this often enough and in several different ways. I got the message and while there was some poor information shared in that class, I am forever grateful that the message about breastfeeding being normal and my milk is the milk my baby should get, resonated, made perfect sense and I never looked back.

Links – Breastfeeding help before your baby is born. Prenatal Skype Consult

Book Suggestions:
My favorite book to recommend to new mothers. Breastfeeding Made Simple: Seven Natural Laws for Nursing Mothers by Nancy Mohbracher

Lesson learned: You don’t need to do anything to prepare your nipples for breastfeeding. If you have specific concerns about flat or inverted nipples or other questions about your nipples, speak with an IBCLC before your baby is born.

Words of Wisdom to a new mother: I share this mantra often – Breastfeeding is not suppose to hurt. Not on Day 1 or Day 2 or Day 3. If it is, don’t wait any longer, get help.

Contact info: allaboutbreastfeeding.biz/contact , Facebook link